Sunday, December 4, 2022

Saint Andrew's Day #feastofstandrew #andermas #andrewtheapostle

 



This last Wednesday, November 30, 2022, was the holiday known as Saint Andrew's Day, a day of celebration honoring the Apostle Andrew.  A good friend of mine, Chris Rome, lives in Scotland, one country where it is celebrated, so I thought it would be amusing to research and write an entry on a tradition of which he is very familiar.  Andrew himself was one of the 12 Apostles of Jesus Christ, as it is written in the Bible, who gave up his lucrative career as a fisherman to 'become fishers of men' once he found the Messiah.  Because of his convictions, when asked to renounce his Savior and refusing, he was put to death similarily to Christ, however, he insisted his crucification be different as even in death he could not come close to the greatness of his Lord.  Thus, he was crucified diagonally, like an X, which was later adopted as the Scottish flag symbol, the Saltire, which is the reasoning why in Scotland this holiday is a National Flag Day.


In AD 832, the Scots and the Picts were in a battle against Angles in today's Athelstaneford, East Lothian, when the leader of their army, Óengus II, declared Andrew the patron saint of Scotland should they prevail.  On the day of their victory, it was said a X-Cross was visible in the sky, which was taken as a sign of Andrew's blessing and protection.  Thus, the Saltire was made the symbol of the Scottish Flag. 


In Scotland, Saint Andrew's Day is akin to that of Saint Patrick's Day in Ireland and is an official bank holiday.  As well it should be, because traditional celebrations include gathering together to honor Scottish history and culture through parties that extend far into the wee morning hours.  In addition, Saint Andrew's Day, November 30th, marks the beginning of the Winter Festivals followed by Hogmanay and Burns Night.  In the town of St. Andrews itself, there is a weeklong celebration.  Much of this holiday is spent with fine feasts of Scottish foods, such as haggis, consuming large quantities of Scottish drink, such as whiskey, and dancing to Scottish music. 


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There are, however, many other countries that celebrate St. Andrew's Day, which are Barbados, Romania, Russia, Germany, Austria, Slovakia, Poland, and Ukraine.  The celebrations in each of these countries varies and differs from that of Scotland.  Barbados honors the holiday as their national day of independence with their coat of arms reflecting that of Andrew's crucification.  Romania includes the ancient pre-Christian religious teachings and connects Andrew with the God Saturnalia or Saturn.  Also in Romania, as well as Ukraine, Germany, Austria, Poland, Slovakia, Russia, and Poland, the eve of Saint Andrew's Day is believed to be the commencement of the highest vampirical activity following until Saint George's Eve on April 22nd.  This is also believed to be the night filled with magical ability for young woman to peek into the future to see who they shall marry.  Many such ritualistic practices for this include 41 grains of wheat under the pillow before they sleep and if the dream shows the grain being stolen, their marriage is impending.  Other practices include the lighting of a candle and taking it to a fountain at midnight to see the face of their future husband, baking suitors' names into bread and whose ever rises is their future spouse, and throwing a shoe over the shoulder and if it lands near the door, the new year will bring marriage. 




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Sunday, November 27, 2022

Journaling Through The Years, Ep. 57: The One With The Bird Boyfriend #f...


Hello! This week's episode I introduce my first real life forever boyfriend who gave me my first real life forever kiss....and so much more. After promising to spend the time sharing the 411 on the boyfriend, I spend most of that discussing some not so positive relations with my classmates. It goes on and on....

Advent: The Coming #advent #holidayseason



advent

ˈadv(ə)nt
noun
1.) the arrival of a notable person or thing. 
2.) the first season of the Church year, leading up to Christmas and including the four preceding Sundays. 
3.) the coming or second coming of Christ.


 From the latin word, "adventus", advent means the coming or arrival of something great.  For Christians, mostly celebrated in liturgical Christian denominations as they prepare for the celebration of the birth of Jesus on Christmas Day.  However, those Christians outside the ecclesiastical calendar have begun also to celebrate according to their own belief.  Furthermore, those outside the Christian religion, may find symbolism in the season of Advent. Those in the ecclesiastical Christian calendar that celebrate Advent faithfully spend the time in meditative preparation for the coming of Christ's birth, contemplating what that means for their belief and the world.  Through practices such as the Jesse Tree, the Advent wreath, and the lighting of candles with the advent colors, purple (repentance and royalty), pink (joy and rejoicing), and white (purity and light), they teach their young to honor and keep the significance of the season.  



 More than just the coming of Christmas, this season to follow is representative of a variety of holiday traditions, hence, the phrase, "Happy Holidays".  This holiday season culminates with the farewell to the year ending and the commencement of a new year, a new season of life for all.  

Throughout the journey of my deconstruction from fundamentalist Christianity, I discovered that all religious and spiritual practice bear similar truths and import.  Thus, I feel the traditional holy days of one religion can impact and influence one of another faith.  

Therefore, let this Advent season be a meditative practice for us all to contemplate and prepare for the arrival of something great beneficial for us personally and collectively.

Advent Special #1: Fast, Pray, Decorate | LITTLE BY LITTLE | Fr Columba Jordan CFR

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"Coffee Chat & Book Review: Sandy Phillips Kirkham CW: #sexualabuse #cle...


In this episode, I review Sandy Phillips Kirkham's autobiography "Let Me Prey Upon You" and then have a deep conversation with her about her story, her struggles, how she overcame, and her message to others who may have been targetted. Sandy Kirkham and her husband Bill enjoy life with their two grown children, two beautiful granddaughters and two fairly well behaved dogs. Sandy continues to use her voice to help victims of clergy abuse. She currently serves on the board of Council Against Child Abuse. Has spoken before the Ohio Senate, a Maryland court, and appeared on a local television show in Boston. Her story, “Stolen Innocence”, was told in a documentary produced by The Hope of Survivors. Sandy works with survivors conducting victim support conferences. She has participated on panels moderated by SNAP (Survivors Network Against Abusive Priest), sharing her perspective from the non-Catholic point of view. She is the author of the book “Prey Upon You” detailing her own experience of clergy abuse by her youth pastor at the age of 16. facebook.com/KirkhamAuthor sandyphillipskirkham.com

Wednesday, November 23, 2022

Thanksgiving: The Full History & Reason To Be Grateful #truthsgiving #takesgiving

 



The origin story of Thanksgiving is thought to have been founded around the celebratory feast between the Separatist pilgrims and the Wampanoag tribe in 1621, but this story has become less of a historical recount and more of a mythical retelling that white-washes the ramifacations that befell in the years to follow.  As demonstrated in the above video, that fateful meal, lasting three whole days (imagine the food and stuffed tummies) was a tale of unity between two distinct peoples coming together to honor one each other and the tumultous rite of passage they had just endured.  In its entirety the story of the first peoples of the Americas, including that of the immigrants that came from Europe, is one fraught with prejudice, death, immense struggle and suffering, and massecre.

The Separatist settlers from England were traveling from Holland to the Americas in search for a land to worship and live freely the way they believed God decreed.  Leaving beyond the religous persecution in their homeland, they were seeking out a better life for themselves and future generations.  When they finally landed where they would settle, not on a rock as is told, they decreed the land be called "New Plymouth" in honor of the city they had once dwelled.  However, this land was once a village called "Pawtuxet" which had wiped out the first inhabitants by the plague, explained to them by the native, Samsoset, and that the Chief of the Wampanoag, Massosoit, was watching with a careful eye after having his people and neighboring tribes be destroyed horrifically by other immigrants. The pilgrims insisted on their desire for peace and offered trade as proof of this.  A few days passed and Samoset returned with several others, including the infamous Tisquantum, also known as Squanto, who spoke impeccable English.  Samoset and Squanto explained that Massosoit, along with his warriors, were on their way to confront these settlers.  Edward Winslow approached the Chief in surrender and with Squanto by his side as interpreter they were able to appease and live peacefully.  The Governor of the Separatist peoples, Thomas Bradford, and Massosoit signed a peace treaty.

As I researched for this article, I found myself reflecting on how both the Wampanoag tribe, as well as other tribes, and the Separatists were alike in that they all had experienced persecution and the threat of death.  The Separatists were coming to establish a place of safety for themselves without knowing what other settlers had done to the Natives of the land.  The Natives of the land had already experienced the onset of massacre through murder and plagues from previous European encounters.  Squanto himself was no stranger to this persecution as his story reflects that of being kidnapped into slavery, finally being rescued by an Englishman, who taught him English, and finally being free to return to his home-tribe of Pawtuxet, finding all those he loved perished from the plague.  He was brought into the Wampanoag tribe, after much debate, because he could be useful as an interpreter.

Thus, what is thought of as the First Thanksgiving (at least in the USA, as the origin of "thanksgiving"  was in Canada in 1578) can be seen as one of unity, coming together despite perceived differences, of commonalities found in similar suffering and persecution.  

In the years to follow, the peace treaty would remain until Squanto would attempt a mutiny against the Massosoit, who pledged to have his life taken.  The Separatist people tried to have Squanto's life spared but ultimately sided with Massosoit, realizing that Squanto had committed a crime.  However, the execution would not take place, because the onset of many more European settlers began to take place.  These settlers, unlike the Separatists, did not continue peace with the Natives of the land but the violence and massacre worsened.  

Why These Native Americans Observe A National Day Of Mourning Each Thanksgiving

Thus, for Native Americans, Thanksgiving is viewed as a Day of Mourning as they continue to fight to not have the suffering and murders of their ancestors wiped from the pages of history.  Truthsgiving and Takesgiving are the names they utilize for this holiday in the final days of November.

All that to be said, why do I continue to celebrate, and the answer to that is simple, to spread the unity and gratitude founded by those at the feast in 1621, looking past differences, of which is forever needed for all people of all lands of all time.  


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Understanding Thanksgiving's history: Indigenous mom leads call to learn about 'Truthsgiving'

Sunday, November 20, 2022

Sinners Every One Of Us #confession #spirituality

 


Few things accelerate the peace process 
as much as humbly admitting our own 
wrongdoing and asking forgiveness. 
- Lee Strobel

In the days after my leaving the church, as I stumbled through the painful path of deconstruction, I came upon the Hindu text, Srimad Bhagavatam, and read it throughout the year of 2016, some six years after my last Sunday morning church service.  What I found began to soften the wound from the church's failings and afflictions, widened my appreciation for the spiritual paths of others, and quickened the path toward healing.  For I discovered was that there more similarities rather than differences between the Hindu text and the Christian Bible as the phrasing of scriptures found in both seemed to reflect universal truths of a eternal connection with the divine.  This realization began the process of forgiveness for the hurts left over from my fundie connections and the healing commenced.  My belief suddenly revealed itself to be, if these texts reflected these similarities and other spiritual practices were alike, then perhaps the solution to my deconstruction is to reconstruct, now viewing that since many of all walks of life, religion, nationalities throughout all of time have sought something beyond understanding, there must then be universal truth.  Finally, all paths do, in fact, lead to God.


Recently, I was discussing with a co-worker about one of the ways that therapy has helped in my life  by giving me the desire to be radically and authentically honest.  She and I discussed how most of the general public do not practice this in their day to day life and instead choose to dwell within the stories created in their mind fraught with pain easily released if one should admit and ask for clarification.  However, this is easier said than done, and as my colleague pointed out, most find false protection in the barrier caused by the stories of their mind and once beaten down will leave to the afeard vulnerability.  However, scary this brokenness may seem from afar, once acquired the pieces lost lend themselves toward true freedom and peace.



This discussion led me back to pondering the similarities in spiritual beliefs and how they also relate to therapeutic method.  The practice of 'confession' sprang up to my mind as I began to seek out the many ways that religions and beliefs encouraged this.  Although there are many differences in how to confess, nevertheless, many of the world spiritual texts, such as the Bible, the Torah, and The Quran, have verses on the importance of confessing one's sins and shortcomings.  For instance, some religions, such as Catholicism believe that confession must be done in the presence of a priest, while others believe none are needed to intercede between God and self, both self alone.  Furthermore, although the Christian faith teaches that confessing sins allows for God's forgiveness, the Jewish belief is not of hell or purgatory but see the act of confession as one of cleansing and purification.  Within Islam, there are two forms of sinning, one against God and one against the religion, with the latter needing reconcialition and retribution to follow after the initial act of confession.  



The thesaurus of Merriam Webster shares that a synonym for confession is admission:

       confession:as in admission
            an open declaration of something (as a fault or the commission of an offense) about oneself
    a confession that he had been lying all along




So, if admission is akin to confession, then the act of therapy can align itself with spiritual practice in that one shares their struggles with a third, non-bias party, such as a counselor or social worker.  It is important in this regard that mental illness or struggles are not equated with the notion of sin, however, the therapeutic process of sharing is similar in relief to one's confession  within spirituality. 

Upon this revelation, I return to my earlier resolution that if all spiritual practices share similarities, adding now the process of recovery through the variety of therapy, finally there is universal truth in something beyond which aligns in unity the vast differences of those everywhere seeking for the freedom and peace found within confession. 

Confession is verbal humiliation.
- Richard Sibbes


When the lie is deeper than I know
You capture me and You carry me home
You see these wounds and rescue me
You always heal things beautifully
And I close my eyes
And You can still my heart
And I call out Your name…
‘Cause You always know
You always know where to find me…
You always know
You always know where to find me…


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Friday, November 18, 2022

Can't Catch A Break, Episode Four: Gloop! #bromance #vlog #cookingshow #...


In this episode, tired from his last two crazy episodes, Barista Nate invites a good friend over who saves the day. Gloop Recipe: 1 Cup of Corn Starch 1 Cup of Water Recipe Courtesy of Shannon Dudley Play! Theme music: Cinematic-(middleversion)-soundside Circus Music Classic (No copyright)